I have just finished with a dad of 3, 18 and 17 and 12 after nine months. Their divorce came through recently. Im not feeling sorry for myself and I never broke the family. His Wife had affairs. I just cant win. Shes loaded now and gloating and playing with their emotions. Hes about to go bankrupt and the kids chose to live with him. I cant bear to see him in this terrible financial state. I got on fine with his children and never interfered. I finally asked him today to see a solicitor for an hour and I would pay. He refused point blank and said hed given in a long time ago and she will be allowed to continued disowning her kids at will. I had to finish with him as no future. Why do these men support their exes behaviour yet wont tolerate advice from new partners.? I have no kids but that is not a reason for me not to understand. I consider myself an intelligent human being but i dont get it?
Are you thinking about selling your home yourself? then
Common sense is the last thing you see when your life is beating you up and winning. Your a good support, but your in the corner of someone who got knocked down an is receiving the count and seems to have no plan of getting up. What he’s going through is like a death in the family. He just want the bad feeling and the stress to just go away. He is not sure of who or what to blame. There are several stages you go through , but the one that will make him want to turn things around is the stage where he realizes that all this isn’t his fault and he doesn’t deserve what he’s gotten. If it isn’t to late, he can turn it around. You were brave to try and stick it out. You are a prize . Look for a guy who doesn’t have so much baggage. Life will move along much better and more fulfilling for you. I was there and now I’m not.
Afraid that she’ll become a PSYCHO b****
so you’re basically a gold digger, you will be with him as long as he earns a super salary. Typical woman.
Because although ex-husbands can be a real pain-in-the-butt, they usually aren’t (although they can be) bent on continuing to destroy your life long after the marriage is over the way a lot of ex-wives are.
Also, all an ex-wife has to do is allege abuse and he loses his kids and possibly his freedom, even if she can’t prove anything. A man does not have such power.
I don’t think that he ever really moved on before he met you.That relationship still stings.Apparently, you never truly lose the bond you have with someone if you have kids with them and share that time with them.
I wish I could answer but I am having the same problem… the guy i am seeing has a 1 year old and the woman is crazy (it was a they met and a month later she was prego) anyways it is just like he wont stand up to her.. cause he dont wanna hear her mouth, but i mean come on get a backbone if he doesn’t stand up to her now she is just gonna get worse… and to touch on what the other person said… THIS woman is the goldigger
No sweetie.. they are not afraid, they are just sad that they have a gold digger like you to contend with, for the prize they just lost. Trust me, it’s a very depressing thought.
As for you "NO REGRETS" she didn’t get "preggo" on her own. It takes two, DUMBO! Keep making excuses for the pathetic liar of a man that you are hooked up with. It is obvious that in your ridiculous desperation to be loved, you’ve lost all respect for yourself and the sanctity of marriage. Keep up the "good" work…just remember that karma is a bitch!
They are still thriving on the same toxic relationship that drew them together. Its not over! RUN LIKE HELL!!!!!!!!