i have a 5month old baby to a man that has never seen her, wasnt interested and his family have no idea she exists. We have not spoken a word to each other since she has been born. He has ignored child support and my solicitor and where scheduled for court soon.
I received a text message at 3am in the morning saying…"Im sorry".
What the heck is this and what should i do?? i have completely ignored it at this time.
Please help i need more advice on this situation???
NSW Law
In early Feb I had a mediation conference in regards to my children and property settlement. I was in my solicitors office, my childrens’ dad was in his and the mediator was via phone. He was the one who left because he cheated on me and decided to be with her. He managed to get extra days per month with the kids and I’m supposed to pay him out for the house to be solely in my name. I dont agree with the amount and I’m concerned for my kids being with him for longer as I know they speak to them like rubbish (swears at and in front of them) and I suspects he does pot while he has them and drinks (but cant prove). They are forever telling the kids they will live with them instead of me and they both bad mouth me to our kids. He’s been in breach of what we did agree on already. I had legal aid for this matter, but do I have to sign if I dont agree?
He sent me a text message a couple of months back (when he left) that I can have the house – I still have it on my phone.
My oldest daughter (11) refuses to go there anymore and now cant as she is protected on an AVO I have against his gf. We werent actually married, just de-facto and have 5 kids together.
I cant afford to sell the house either
i have a nearly 6month old lil girl to a man who has never seen her (didnt want to be a father). I have not spoken to him since i was 6mnths pregnant. He has ignored child support and now the solicitors (he is being served papers this week). He has not told his family about his daughter either.
I received a text message at 3am saying "Im sorry".
What the hell is this??? and why am i left feeling alil sad about this?? i have ignored it and the solicitor told me to not make contact.
Why has he done this? Please i need some more advice im abit lost here.
Cheers
I recently helped my best friend to buy her first home. Not financially. I did the settlement/conveyancing for her for "mates rates" (I’m a settlement agent). I chased up her finance with her broker (which was running late), made sure her finance approval date was extended, so seller didnt terminate the contract. I personally delivered documents, explained everything, held her hand all the way through the complicated legal process.. went way above and beyond the call of duty. Even on my own birthday when I was on leave from work, I still ran around helping her (which really bothered my husband, because he took the day off to spend my birthday with me). When it settled, I sent her a text message (cause she cant take personal calls at work) to say "Congratulations, settlement effected, it’s all yours!". And then silence from her. No text message to say thank you, no call, nothing. Twice I tried to visit her in the week after settlement, and she wasnt home, and my phone calls to her mobile when unanswered. 4 weeks later she sends me a text "havent seen you for ages, will come over Monday". But she didnt turn up, and I havent seen her since. That was 2 months ago. Still silence form her.
My feelings a very hurt, and I admit I’ve taken a step back, but who wouldnt? I want to extend the olive branch, but my feelings are hurt and I want her to come see me, and say thank you for helping her, invite me over to see her new home. Is that too much to ask?
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