He say’s he will give them back once I have paid him out but I am yet to see a solicitor and am ages away from property settlement. I feel it is a violation of privacy and I don’t want him coming and going as he pleases. He plans to continue seeing our children from our home once he leaves but I would rather he see them in his own home. I need to get on with my life without the constant intrusion. Do I have any rights to having my keys back or should I just change the locks?
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10 mths ago i came out of a 12 yr on/off relationship. we are now going thru a property settlement with solicitors involved. He left me. we were arguing so much and had been in business together for yrs.I had given him his jobs the last 8 yrs as he had a back op and was finding it hard to work. I have been left in a large house and accommodation business. We cant agree on a settlement but to cut a long story short, i did have a rebound relationship and then met up with my ex after this and im pregnant.Now 5 mths.
I had my periods with my ex and took morning after pill with rebound relationship, but still pregnant. I dont even sleep around but im still depressed after this breakup and am so lonely.
I just work in this house all day and ex is five hrs away. He says he will come back only if the dna says its his child, so he musnt love me.
we argue now constantly trying to divide assetts.
How do i move on, esp being pregnant?
I still love ex, but hes never coming back to me.
PLEASE Help- im so lonely .im nearly 37 and hate my life
10 mths ago i came out of a 12 yr on/off relationship. we are now going thru a property settlement with solicitors involved. He left me. we were arguing so much and had been in business together for yrs.I had given him his jobs the last 8 yrs as he had a back op and was finding it hard to work. I have been left in a large house and accommodation business. We cant agree on a settlement but to cut a long story short, i did have a rebound relationship and then met up with my ex after this and im pregnant.Now 5 mths.
I had my periods with my ex and took morning after pill with rebound relationship, but still pregnant. I dont even sleep around but im still depressed after this breakup and am so lonely.
I just work in this house all day and ex is five hrs away. He says he will come back only if the dna says its his child, so he musnt love me.
we argue now constantly trying to divide assetts.
How do i move on, esp being pregnant?
I still love ex, but hes never coming back to me.
PLEASE Help- im so lonely .im nearly 37 and hate my life
10 mths ago i came out of a 12 yr on/off relationship. we are now going thru a property settlement with solicitors involved. He left me. we were arguing so much and had been in business together for yrs.I had given him his jobs the last 8 yrs as he had a back op and was finding it hard to work. I have been left in a large house and accommodation business. We cant agree on a settlement but to cut a long story short, i did have a rebound relationship and then met up with my ex after this and im pregnant.Now 5 mths.
I had my periods with my ex and took morning after pill with rebound relationship, but still pregnant. I dont even sleep around but im still depressed after this breakup and am so lonely.
I just work in this house all day and ex is five hrs away. He says he will come back only if the dna says its his child, so he musnt love me.
we argue now constantly trying to divide assetts.
How do i move on, esp being pregnant?
I still love ex, but hes never coming back to me.
PLEASE Help- im so lonely .im nearly 37 and hate my life
NSW Law
In early Feb I had a mediation conference in regards to my children and property settlement. I was in my solicitors office, my childrens’ dad was in his and the mediator was via phone. He was the one who left because he cheated on me and decided to be with her. He managed to get extra days per month with the kids and I’m supposed to pay him out for the house to be solely in my name. I dont agree with the amount and I’m concerned for my kids being with him for longer as I know they speak to them like rubbish (swears at and in front of them) and I suspects he does pot while he has them and drinks (but cant prove). They are forever telling the kids they will live with them instead of me and they both bad mouth me to our kids. He’s been in breach of what we did agree on already. I had legal aid for this matter, but do I have to sign if I dont agree?
He sent me a text message a couple of months back (when he left) that I can have the house – I still have it on my phone.
My oldest daughter (11) refuses to go there anymore and now cant as she is protected on an AVO I have against his gf. We werent actually married, just de-facto and have 5 kids together.
I cant afford to sell the house either
I recently seperated. While I was married 13 years I think the last 2 were just breaking up. Anyway my ex wife got a new job, as a result the first year she had to be away. During this time she had numerous affairs. When we got back together I thought she would stop, but it continued. She only does it when drunk. We have 3 young boys. I decided to end when she got drunk while I was away and allowed herself to be used in front of the kids. Now as I have stated I want no more of her, she has been angry and aggressive. First trying to block custody. Even though I tried for 50 – 50, due to alcohol incidences I ended up with the kids. Kids like this arrangement. Still I want kids to see their mum but she is being difficult. I can not understand I wanted just to end marriage and divide everything 50 – 50. She will not agree, she used to care for her kids now we are losing everything due to solicitor fees. Because she lost kids she wants to drag out property settlement. I was not the one who made her lose the kids, they decided they had enough. At moment I need to make a desicion to stay were I am or move due to financial reason’s. If I move it means kids will have access to mum reduced even more. I have tried to explain my situation to her but she still seems angry blames me. Tells kids its not her that wanted the marriage to end. Yes i ended the marriage, but I do not feel it was my choice. I just want to move on with life. But in order for anyone to move on she needs to allow communication. How do I get her to communicate, without costly solicitors.
My boys are aged 8, 10 and 12. They have a good idea whats going on. They are happy to go but they also love their mum. Seems it is up to me to decide. I look at going seems so many good points and when you look at staying it is only for her. At moment she is not even seeing them. I had hoped over time she would have calmed down. And losing her kids would have made her change back to who she was. Seems only made it worse.
Custody already decided they are with me. This was easy due to neglect when drunk. Kids also wanted this. So custody seems a breeze compared to the property settlement. I feel her solicitor is not helping her. I mean she is offered 50%, considering she lost custody you would think she would be reasonable. While she feels she is paying for her solicitor, she is not paying her share of joint loans. If bank closes loans we lose house which we purchased to provide future equity for kids. I just want to know how to make her listen to reason, and get a better solicitor. Or simply just settle.
Thanks for the advise. Seems I know what to do, just hate having to do it. But hearing other people say what I am thinking reassures me.
My ex and I separated and we have already had the property settlement done in court. I have to pay him a set amount of money. The court did not order the house to be sold, but I can only pay him his share if we sell the house. However, his child support payments have just been adjusted, and are quite a bit higher now than when we did property settlement in court. It would mean in 4 years time, he would have saved paying me what he is supposed to get under settlement. It also means the kids (3 and 6 years old) and I would not have to find somewhere else to live, move etc. I can refinance whats left of the mortgage into my name without a problem, plus save real estate fees, solicitors, removalists etc too.
Should I offer him no more child support payments ever, if he signs the house over to me? I can’t find a website that offers this kind of advice to people.
I live in rural NSW, Australia-that might be important to know legally?
Are you thinking about selling your home yourself? then