to all you grandparents our there or anyone?

i have a 5mnth old baby to a 32 year old (boy) he doesnt want anything to do with her, never even seen her. The thing is his family doesnt even know she exists! what should i do. Would it be wrong of me to tell them (this is for my daughter!) they have never met me. if they dont want to know her at least i can move on knowing i tried for her.

would you hate the woman for telling you? also he has ignored child support and my solicitor and now we may have to go to court. should i wait till thats all over if i was to tell them?

please honest answers would be much appreciated…….:-)


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    I received a text message at 3am in the morning saying…"Im sorry".

    What the heck is this and what should i do?? i have completely ignored it at this time.

    Please help i need more advice on this situation???


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      the father of my 6month old baby (never seen her and didnt want her) has shut shop, changed mobile ph # and basically become uncontactable (ignored Child support and my solicitor cuz he doesnt want to pay for his daughter) His family have no idea she exists.

      I became so frustrated and phoned his mother and ibformed her i was going thru a legal dispute with her son and he has become uncontactable. (servers are struggling to serve him cuz he has gone) i told his mother i was not to discuss what the dispute was about but its something he should have told you over 12months ago. (i was very calm and polite to her.) I so wanted to tell her but my solicitor said i wasnt aloud. She has not heard about it and said she is going to contact him immediately!

      Was this the wrong thing for me to do?? i am just so angry at that son of a b***h


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        His family have no idea she even exists and i got in contact with his mother (i didnt tell her about her grandaughter as my solicitor advised me not to say anything at this time) i told her we are going thru a legal dispute and he is not co-operating and become un-contactable and he should have told you about it 12 months ago.

        He ended up calling me and he said he will start co-operating and he has not done a thing!!! it has been nearly a week! and he didnt tell his mother either (he just brushed her off!) im furious!!

        Do i have a right to feel so damn angry at this????


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          I need help. i have 5 mnth old baby to a man that doesnt want to know her and never met her.

          The problem is he has not told any of his family she exists. They have never met me either, but i do know how to contact them. I thought i could keep my mouth shut and say nothing but its proven to be so difficult. My daughter has a right to know where she comes from and his family have a right to know she exists.

          Would telling them, be the right thing to do? or should i stay out of it. They are her family too.

          This is so hard and plays on mind. I am going through a child support dispute with him which will prob end up in court and he refuses to speak to me or to CSA or Solicitors. Should i wait till after that if i was going to contact them? Will they hate me for telling them?


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