The father of my baby will not participate with child support and now i have had to get a solicitor on to him. He has acknowledged to me that he knows its his baby but sign a stat declaration acknowledging she is his (cuz he knows once he puts pen to paper he will have to start paying) we have asked him to do a paternity test. (to resolve it out of court) he has ignored this completely and now we have to go to court which there going to enforce he do it anyway.

I have nothing to hide here and know 100% he is the father and he does think that as well! why would he want to go to court? where he has been told he will have to pay for the DNA, my court costs and his own!

Please is there something i am missing here?


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    the father of m 7month old lil girl has never seen her and didnt want her.

    Ignored child support and the solicitor for over 3months. I know he is the father and he does too and i have been asking him to do DNA as he wont sign anthing to acknowledge she is his cause he does not want to pa child support.

    After all this time he has agreed but i am concerned he will send a mate in or do something to sabbotage his sample altho he does have to go to a place where the pple will take the sample.

    Can he sabbotage this? has it happened to someone out there??


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      m 7month old daughters father (never met her, didnt want her) has been difficult. ignored child support and solicitor!

      It has taken him 3 months to agree to DNA (he knows she is his but doesnt want to pa child support and his fam has no idea she even exists) on his affadavit it stated that he would consider what part he will have in the childs life once the test has been done. (which is a crock as he is just afraid cuz i told him once the test is done im going to tell his parents! and he doesnt want to look bad like he didnt want his daughter altho that is the truth)

      im just worried…. has anone been in this situation?…..im afraid he will end up going me for 1/2 custodie to be an a**hole….what cud i expect from him once the results are in??? (and im 100 percent he is the father)


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        The father of my baby who has never seen her (bub is 5mnths old) is been very unco-operative! He is ignoring child support and now my solicitor! tried to get him to do paternity as he wont sign a stat dec. Although he has acknowledged its his daughter to me before. Now we have to go to court and force him to do paternity,.

        I have nothing to hide we both know its his daughter.(but he knows once he signs docs. he has to pay!) why is he doing this? he has to pay for the DNA , my court costs and his own.Is there something im missing here? why am i left feeling bad???

        Also none of his family know she even exists (and i have never met them).


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          10 mths ago i came out of a 12 yr on/off relationship. we are now going thru a property settlement with solicitors involved. He left me. we were arguing so much and had been in business together for yrs.I had given him his jobs the last 8 yrs as he had a back op and was finding it hard to work. I have been left in a large house and accommodation business. We cant agree on a settlement but to cut a long story short, i did have a rebound relationship and then met up with my ex after this and im pregnant.Now 5 mths.
          I had my periods with my ex and took morning after pill with rebound relationship, but still pregnant. I dont even sleep around but im still depressed after this breakup and am so lonely.
          I just work in this house all day and ex is five hrs away. He says he will come back only if the dna says its his child, so he musnt love me.
          we argue now constantly trying to divide assetts.
          How do i move on, esp being pregnant?
          I still love ex, but hes never coming back to me.
          PLEASE Help- im so lonely .im nearly 37 and hate my life


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            10 mths ago i came out of a 12 yr on/off relationship. we are now going thru a property settlement with solicitors involved. He left me. we were arguing so much and had been in business together for yrs.I had given him his jobs the last 8 yrs as he had a back op and was finding it hard to work. I have been left in a large house and accommodation business. We cant agree on a settlement but to cut a long story short, i did have a rebound relationship and then met up with my ex after this and im pregnant.Now 5 mths.
            I had my periods with my ex and took morning after pill with rebound relationship, but still pregnant. I dont even sleep around but im still depressed after this breakup and am so lonely.
            I just work in this house all day and ex is five hrs away. He says he will come back only if the dna says its his child, so he musnt love me.
            we argue now constantly trying to divide assetts.
            How do i move on, esp being pregnant?
            I still love ex, but hes never coming back to me.
            PLEASE Help- im so lonely .im nearly 37 and hate my life


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              10 mths ago i came out of a 12 yr on/off relationship. we are now going thru a property settlement with solicitors involved. He left me. we were arguing so much and had been in business together for yrs.I had given him his jobs the last 8 yrs as he had a back op and was finding it hard to work. I have been left in a large house and accommodation business. We cant agree on a settlement but to cut a long story short, i did have a rebound relationship and then met up with my ex after this and im pregnant.Now 5 mths.
              I had my periods with my ex and took morning after pill with rebound relationship, but still pregnant. I dont even sleep around but im still depressed after this breakup and am so lonely.
              I just work in this house all day and ex is five hrs away. He says he will come back only if the dna says its his child, so he musnt love me.
              we argue now constantly trying to divide assetts.
              How do i move on, esp being pregnant?
              I still love ex, but hes never coming back to me.
              PLEASE Help- im so lonely .im nearly 37 and hate my life


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