my son was adopted out at birth 6yrs ago,his mother didn’t tell me her plans or tell me that she had already had the baby so my name wasn’t on the birth certificate,he is now in foster care as his adoptive parents physically abused him,I have seen a solicitor and have a final court hearing set for the 16th of this month,I have heard reports of what his adoptive parents did to him the nextdoor neighbors reported that they had seen him being dragged out of the car by his hair,punched in the back of the head,called a spec(derogotory term for hispanic),had his pants pulled down and told to go p on the tree like the dog that he is,he was constantly hungry and weighs the same as my 3yr old son,I am seeking custody of him,I have a good paying job,stable home,custody of my other 2 children and can provide for him,the problem is he doesnt know me and would be moving to a new country
what are my chances for getting custody?


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    my son was adopted out at birth 6yrs ago,his mother didn’t tell me her plans or tell me that she had already had the baby so my name wasn’t on the birth certificate,he is now in foster care as his adoptive parents physically abused him,I have seen a solicitor and have a final court hearing set for the 16th of this month,I have heard reports of what his adoptive parents did to him the nextdoor neighbors reported that they had seen him being dragged out of the car by his hair,punched in the back of the head,called a spec(derogotory term for hispanic),had his pants pulled down and told to go p on the tree like the dog that he is,he was constantly hungry and weighs the same as my 3yr old son,I am seeking custody of him,I have a good paying job,stable home,custody of my other 2 children and can provide for him,the problem is he doesnt know me and would be moving to a new country
    what are my chances for getting custody?
    the foster parents that are currantly looking after him want to adopt him would they have a better chance as he wont need to move and has already formed some sort of bond with them
    I understand that he will act out and I am prepared for that,I have looked into counceling for myself and him to attend and also things that might make the transition easier on him
    Honestly, I would seek proper legal advice
    I have been seeking proper legal advise that is why there is a hearing set for this month


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      my son was adopted out at birth 6yrs ago,his mother didn’t tell me her plans or tell me that she had already had the baby so my name wasn’t on the birth certificate,he is now in foster care as his adoptive parents physically abused him,I have seen a solicitor and have a final court hearing set for the 16th of this month,I have heard reports of what his adoptive parents did to him the nextdoor neighbors reported that they had seen him being dragged out of the car by his hair,punched in the back of the head,called a spec(derogotory term for hispanic),had his pants pulled down and told to go p on the tree like the dog that he is,he was constantly hungry and weighs the same as my 3yr old son,I am seeking custody of him,I have a good paying job,stable home,custody of my other 2 children and can provide for him,the problem is he doesnt know me and would be moving to a new country
      what are my chances for getting custody?
      the neighbors have already testified,this hearing isnt going to involve his adoptive parents at all as they have already lost all rights and are now going to be charged with child abuse and neglect its between me and his foster parents,yes I have had a dna test already and he is mine without a doubt


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        I am currently pregnant with less then 2 weeks to go! My ex boyfriend the father of the baby wont stop harrasing me about certain matters. We had been together for a total of 9 months with 2 short break in between. Breaking up due to many fights & lack of interest in baby, abuse and no intention of getting a job! The final time breaking up i had enough of the same matters especially no interest. I ended it on good terms explaining i wanted to be friends for babies sake, i didnt hear from him in months. He then harrased me over hearing from my ex friend that baby wasnt his, claiming he wanted dna test. I went to legal aid they said he has no rights to see her if not on certificate. Harrasment continued from him and family, with threats to take me to court. This has continued to present day!
        I am terrible scared of him seeing baby due to his lifestyle and bad behavour. Need advice on whether to claim full custody as family are into drugs and abuse! please help! As im scared!
        i have gotten police involved last month, they came to my house and took report on harrasment, the family have not spoken since.
        Legal aid said if he does not believe he is the father he shouldnt be put on the birth certificate till he has paid for test. Then he cannot harrase me or baby till he has done so. I have to go back after baby is born to file my legal aid and hand in paper work.
        This man showed that he wanted baby at begining(agreeing to keep baby) then didnt show interest after. Think maybe its cause im well off with money and he has nothing.. He also claimed he wanted half of baby bonus after she was born. Thinking he may just be hassling me for money.
        Was thinking at begining of going for supervised visitations but i know the family and they will try take her away from me, as they have friend in the situation and their suggestion is "kidnappin". Im ever so scared! Even to go to hospital to have her!
        He is the father of the baby 100% i kno my dates and i was with him during conception Many may think im crazy for being involved but i thought he would change at the news of being a father, yet to this day has not got one thing for the baby, or showed interest, god he couldnt even remember when she was due! He just heard of some old friends that baby might not be his, and being the dick he is he believes them and has got himself into more trouble then ever. I wanted to remain friends as i did not want all this trouble in the long run with visitation and custody i wanted to stay civil and make a time for him to see her. i just hope when he realises he has to pay child support and 900 dollars for the dna test he will nick off coz he wont afford it. And im keeping a diary of the phone calls, i have all the emails and online conversations from them, and also what legal aid had suggested, so its not like im trying to go full custody to stop him seeing her.. im trying to do wats best!

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