10 mths ago i came out of a 12 yr on/off relationship. we are now going thru a property settlement with solicitors involved. He left me. we were arguing so much and had been in business together for yrs.I had given him his jobs the last 8 yrs as he had a back op and was finding it hard to work. I have been left in a large house and accommodation business. We cant agree on a settlement but to cut a long story short, i did have a rebound relationship and then met up with my ex after this and im pregnant.Now 5 mths.
I had my periods with my ex and took morning after pill with rebound relationship, but still pregnant. I dont even sleep around but im still depressed after this breakup and am so lonely.
I just work in this house all day and ex is five hrs away. He says he will come back only if the dna says its his child, so he musnt love me.
we argue now constantly trying to divide assetts.
How do i move on, esp being pregnant?
I still love ex, but hes never coming back to me.
PLEASE Help- im so lonely .im nearly 37 and hate my life
Are you thinking about selling your home yourself? then
DESPITE ALL THE OTHER MESS WITH THE PROPERTY SETTLEMENT STUFF, YOU HAVE A BABY COMING.. BABIES ARE A BLESSING IN ITSELF AND U SHOULD THINK THAT WAY. YOU ARE ABOUT TO BRING A BEAUTIFUL LIFE INTO THIS WORLD, SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY.. SO TELL THE EX AND THE REBOUND TO HIT THE ROAD BECAUSE YOU DON’T NEED THEM AND PICK YOURSELF UP AND TRY TO MAKE A LIFE FOR YOU AND YOUR BABY.. AS FAR AS BEING LONELY, THERE ARE MANY PLACES TO MEET MEN, I MET MY HUSBAND ONLINE AND HAVE NOW BEEN MARRIED TO HIM FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS .. BUT YOU MUST GET YOURSELF TOGETHER AND CLEAR YOUR HEAD FIRST.. LOVE WILL COME WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT AND THE LONELINESS WILL SUBSIDE.. GOOD LUCK TO YOU! KEEP THE FAITH!!