My Partner is going through an extremely bitter time with his ex partner and children. Not only is his ex partner an uneducated foul mouth who allows her current partner to call her two young children (under age 10) vulgar names etc… Tries to continuosly blame and accuse my partner of many different various acts, lately including child molestation. She has also mentioned this to my partners two children (under age 10) and I find this utterly disgusting.
My partner is prepared to see psychologists, do a lie detector or whatever it takes to prove his innocence.
I am currently in contact with a legal barrister looking to charging both her and her partner with slander/defamation of charactor and would like to hear other peoples opinions on this matter.
Thanks
Are you thinking about selling your home yourself? then
What can you do:
First, file a suit for defamation of character (your partner might have to do that)
Second, talk with a doctor, to get help in determining what damage this does to the children. You might even need to consider taking in these kids for their protection – and file that the ex- partner be suspended from being a parent (i`m not sure how that works)
Third, make sure this doesn`t drag you both down. When you know you didn`t do it, don`t let this doubt yourself, or your partner.
That is one sick b i t c h, how dare her falsley accuse somebody of such a terrible act, I feel for you and your partner, I hope that everything works out for the best, I wish the two of you the best of luck!
ex-partner is code for gay…right
You are doing exactly what you can. I was just going to say get a good lawyer etc. Good luck!
Get a good lawyer and go to court kids usually dont lie on the stand and if they do (been told what to say) they break very easily and the judge will see right though them,…these are very serious charges and if convicted he could get 20yrs so i woulnt go in half-cocked .. Once the charges are dissmissed then concentrate on your countersuits and be prepared to take custody of some children
unfortunately, this is a common trick played too often. i feel really, really bad for your mate if it is in fact untrue. it is going to be a battle long waged if his ex really does push it. i would demand the child(ren) be medically and psychologically examined immediately and ask the court to reimburse the cost if the claim is found to be unfounded.
that said, my ex DID rape his ten year old daughter who i met at 13. she was horribly anorexic and troubled and 5 years into the relationship, the news was revealed. the only reason it was revealed was that a friend of hers confided in me that he had done the same thing to her and i had to turn him in. i only say this because her father was a well respected medical doctor and i would have never thought he could ever have done anything like that. my point is only that sometimes, as partners we have to remove ourselves and force ourselves to remain unbiased before we can see the truth.
not that i am making a judgment about your current situation but, i would feel remiss if i didn’t tell you that sometimes these things CAN be true of those you would suspect the least.
i still believe that most often, they are not true and in fact, have known a few women who have knowingly played this card. it is simply horrific to have false claims of this nature levied against you or, someone you love, but i hope that that is the case with your mate because the alternative is even worse.
good luck to you
no slander/defemation case…unless you lose job,position in community. find a legal advocate and start documenting. for resolution … see a professional. the kids are the true victims. no matter what, get him help. some-one to talk to !!!before Dr. Phil shows up.