Jun
30
The father of my baby who has never seen her (bub is 5mnths old) is been very unco-operative! He is ignoring child support and now my solicitor! tried to get him to do paternity as he wont sign a stat dec. Although he has acknowledged its his daughter to me before. Now we have to go to court and force him to do paternity,.
I have nothing to hide we both know its his daughter.(but he knows once he signs docs. he has to pay!) why is he doing this? he has to pay for the DNA , my court costs and his own.Is there something im missing here? why am i left feeling bad???
Also none of his family know she even exists (and i have never met them).
Are you thinking about selling your home yourself? then
ur feeling bad because hes being a complete jack***. stay strong and let the court know that what he is doing is wrong, that he is ignoring his responsibilities, and making it harder for you to raise your daughter
ask yourself "what would jesus do?"
try not to feel bad, its his fault. He is just trying to get out of paying. He is having trouble accepting that he needs to follow through with his choice. Good luck…
lolz at u getting prego
get all yu can out of that ass hole..!
that happened 2 my mom when i was like a year old and my dad never payed child support and moved wicked far away and now im 13 and my life sucked
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Welcome to the wonderful world of single parenthood. Some men will dodge child support forever. My kids dad even got out of the navy and is jobless living off of his parents to avoid child support-if he has no job-they don’t make him pay.
he scared to b a dad
u shouldnt because he is missinq out on beinq a lovinq father
to me it sounds like he may either want to be a part of his kids life and is holding back everything until he can come to you about it or…he is kinda dumb and thinks he wont have to pay if he dodges you and court.
Uhh 1st tell your family! Ur just making it worst for yourself. There’s a biiiig difference between "OMG!!! My child got pregnant!!!" and "OMG! look at that baby!"
2nd. You should get a really good lawyer and force him to pay child support he prolly has no money I don’t know your situation or know you personally so I can’t judge!
Wat i think is he knows shes his but doesn’t want to face up to his responsibility and this is Waite his doing and just hope-in it will all just go away,typical man!
If you truly don’t have anything to hide then I don’t know why you are feeling so bad either. Once the court establishes paternity, he will be obligated by law to pay child support and there is nothing he can do to stop it. If for some reason the test shows that he is not the father, he won’t have to do anything for you. You know he is the father or if there is any possible way he isn’t. If you are that sure he is the father, then he needs to pay support. Support is for the child. You are better off if he doesn’t see the child at this point or ever if he is going to be immature. You want your child to grow up with positive role models, so don’t be upset for taking care of your child. He is being irresponsible and immature and you need to just keep on taking care of your child and only of her needs. Whether he sees her or not should not create an issue unless you make it one. Good luck.
you shouldve made him put a ring on it first lol