m 7month old daughters father (never met her, didnt want her) has been difficult. ignored child support and solicitor!
It has taken him 3 months to agree to DNA (he knows she is his but doesnt want to pa child support and his fam has no idea she even exists) on his affadavit it stated that he would consider what part he will have in the childs life once the test has been done. (which is a crock as he is just afraid cuz i told him once the test is done im going to tell his parents! and he doesnt want to look bad like he didnt want his daughter altho that is the truth)
im just worried…. has anone been in this situation?…..im afraid he will end up going me for 1/2 custodie to be an a**hole….what cud i expect from him once the results are in??? (and im 100 percent he is the father)
Are you thinking about selling your home yourself? then
Forget him..its his loss.if he doesnt want to be around hes a loser who will miss out on the wonderful gift of being a parent…Just do your best for your child and avoid uneccesary drama..it effects your kid too much which ever side it comes from…Im a father who has fought hard to keep contact with my child..she is the world to me me i look forward to every chance i can be with her…dont use your kid as a weopon to hurt another person your kids work it all out in the end….just tell child support then he is obligated to pay a fair share worked out on his wages he can only ignore them for so long they will eventually deduct his wage plus extras ..believe me im paying for it.,,goood luck things can get messy at times…above all show your kids love not anger
well for a start, why do you want to tell his parents? if your worried about what he will do, they will back him up so you will have even more trouble on your hands. Wen he finds out he is the dad, why would he get custody? your the one who has been raising this child so a long as you have a loving relationship with your child they wont take her away. If he doesnt want to be a part of her life then why do you want him to be? when you can, just get the child support your child deserves and stay away from him until he can be man enough to show some responsibility. im sure that in the future you will find a genuine guy who will love you both, but it sounds like you and your daughter are better off without him. i know its denying your baby her grandparents but they will find out in time, and it will be HIS fault they missed out, but from past experience with my friend, if you tell them, they may be angry with him but they will be on his side. good luck