Me and my ex are no longer together. On good will, i signed our childrens passports, so they can go to NZ providing i get to see my kids. My ex rung me to say i can no longer see my kids and she is in a new relationship and our children have a new dad and my kids are now calling me by my name and call there step dad, Dad. I said to her, you can’t stop me from seeing my children.Her reply was she would have me shot. I believed her before i signed the passports, she wasn’t gonna stop me from seeing our children. I guess i was taken for a fool. I miss my children so much. It has interfere with my work and how i function for the day. I can’t sleep at night because of this. I spoke to my son and he called me by my name and said i have a new Dad now. They haven’t been in NZ for more than 2 months. This was my ex plan from day one to cut me out all together. I went to see a Solicitor to see what i can do. They told me i need ,000 to get a court order to get my children.I don’t have that.
Are you thinking about selling your home yourself? then
I really feel for you. My children’s father took my two youngest children to Washington state and said he would be back in a week, but instead he filed a court petition for custody. He lied alot and won residential while I have the summer vacations and some holidays. I too was very hurt and it interfered with my job and life. It has been three years now since that day and I finally have a lawyer I will be talking to tomorrow morning to get the children back here. Try going to legal services and see what they tell you. I am in the US and am not sure about the other country’s laws. It might help if you take a trip to NZ or possibly move there and it might be alot cheaper for a lawyer. Can you get a loan? Do you own a home to put up for collateral if you get a loan? Do you have family that will help you?
This might not be want you want to hear, but through all this I became a born again Christian this last year. I have been praying for a few months now and I finally got my prayers answered today. The Lord really does take care of his followers.
Your ex is doing evil deeds. This will not last long. Put it all in the Lord God’s hands.
My heart goes out to you. My husband has a daughter from a previous marriage who also calls him by his first name and refuses to call him dad. The only time we hear from her or we are allowed to have any contact with her is when her mother wants extra money from us on top of the $9,000 a year we pay in child support. It’s awful and is really hard on my husband, so I really feel for you being in this situation.