i am separated with a 9 month old girl.Basically my ex husband who i was with for nearly 5 years was emotionally and physically abusive in this time along with his family members who caused me alot of distress. Through my pregnancy he tortured me as his family were trying to sabotage our marriage and had brainwashed him. I was not working at the time he did not support me in any way financially or emotionally he was abusive especially when he found out i was having a girl,any way to cut a long story short once i gave birth we separated and had to get an avo as he started hitting me even when i was feeding my 4 week old daughter didn’t want anything to do with her and wished she never existed claimed accidents can happen meaning i should watch our backs. He hasn’t seen my daughter for 6 months and suddenly now claims he wants to see her i know there must be a motive he is dangerous and vindictive as he did say he will drag out our settlement as he would rather solicitors have the money and wants to destroy my life along with my daughter. I am worried with this new reform that he will have his way and my daughter will be in harms way.
Are you thinking about selling your home yourself? then
The way it works in the US is if the custody is 50-50 then neither pays support to the other. He is probably worried about having to pay child support so he’s trying to get at least partial custody thinking he’ll save some $$$
You need to write down everything you can remember and anything you can PROVE with pictures or witnesses. Anything he said or did that could be dangerous to the baby. That is the information that will help the judge decide if this guy is competent to have unsupervised visitation.
He does have parental rights, and it would be great if your daughter could grow up knowing her dad, as long as he isn’t harmful to her. If you can afford a lawyer, get one. Good luck!
i wouldn’t trust him either, you need to protect your daughter and yourself, file a restraining order against him, and take other steps through the courts to maintain your distance…scary
i wouldn’t trust him either, you need to protect your daughter and yourself, file a restraining order against him, and take other steps through the courts to maintain your distance…scary